Thursday, July 25, 2013

Over the River with your Parents and Boyfriend



How to plan for a long car ride with your parents and boyfriend:
Parents and your boyfriend in one long car ride up to a wedding (bound to be awkward insinuations there, right?) in the middle of nowhere in the middle of the summer? Don't gouge your eyes yet! It is possible and you will survive (just like that song says).
1. Wear Layers: you will probably be in the backseat and the a/c in small cars can be fidgety. My parents like it cold and I like it a bit warmer if possible. Wear shorts and bring a pair of sweatpants and a sweatshirt to yank on if you feel like you're skiing all of a sudden because your mom pointed the a/c right at you.
2. CD's acceptable by most: I am breaking a cardinal teenage/young adult rule by not recommending ear buds on a trip with your parents. There is a reason behind my madness: Conversation. If you and your boyfriend have ear buds in conversation stops and it can make things last a lot longer. Especially if your parents want to tell you something and one or both of you have to keep pausing your music to listen and respond. You're not going to win everybody's heart with your music selection but use it as an opportunity to make some neat mix cds to create memories to play again.
3. Dramamine. I have never been one of those people that get motion sickness. I always have seen car rides as a time for reading. My parents on the other hand can't go on kiddie rides at carnivals without feeling nauseous and as I get older I am realizing I believe I have caught that gene. I'm almost certain it is because of driving so much more by myself in the past year that sitting in the backseat feels like a life sentence. Packing some Dramamine and taking it before you even climb into your cell helps make it more bearable.
4. Books/Magazines: I said no to ear buds but I will say yes to a book or magazine. I'd recommend both so you can have some light reading with a magazine to buffer drags in conversations or have a book to cope with long silences.
5. A small pillow: Don’t go overboard bringing your body pillow. Just have on hand a small throw pillow. You won’t bang your head as hard on the window if you feel like snoozing and if your back is hurting it can provide some relief.
6. Codigo Cube: This is something I’ll be trying for the first time in a car. Codigo Cube is a trivia game that all you need is your phone and the little one inch by one inch cube. Everyone can compete in this game even the driver if someone rolls the cube for them. It’s very easy to do and you can select different levels for playing. You roll the cube. Scan the QR code. The person answers the question. Then passes it to the next player. Or you can play it as teams. Your parents against you and your boyfriend or guys against girls. Whatever and it’s a fun little game that can be as short or as long as you want.
7. Phone car chargers: The worst days are usually when my phone dies. I love checking up on twitter and this trip I will be partially working so I need to maintain access to my email. Both of these things will suck up your battery so make sure you have a car charger for your phone or tablet if you plan on using them in the car.
8. Snacks and Drinks: Bring some light snacks and a bag for trash. Nothing that requires extra utensils, nothing that makes a giant mess, nothing that will leave a lingering odor. Think granola bars or baby carrots. Find out what people would like to drink. I love juices but am not a huge fan of just water.
9. Sunglasses: I get headaches easily and sunglasses keep me from cringing from the light. (On that note don’t forget Tylenol either). Plus sunglasses make you look cool. And isn’t that what’s important in a road trip?
10. Enjoy the Ride: Sit back, watch the cars go by, and relax. You’re not in the office and you’re surrounded by people you care about. Enjoy your drive. 

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